Farah Jasmine Griffin On Race and Politics & How Literature Illuminates Both

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Mindy: We're here today with Farah Jasmine Griffin, who is the author of Read Until You Understand: The Profound Wisdom of Black Life and Literature. And I am so interested in talking to you about this book, particularly because I love the origin story about this, so if you could share that in the story about your father, I think it is just so profound and uplifting. 

Farah: The book actually starts with my father, who I consider my first teacher, and my father was basically a self-taught man, a working class man, a welder who loved books and loved history. He was a very gifted teacher, and he made those things very exciting to the young people in his life, and he would tell these fantastic stories that were based in history. I grew up in Philadelphia, so he would take me to all of the historic sites, where the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution were written and signed and he taught me to read and shared his passion and love for books and history with me. Unfortunately, my father died prematurely, he died when I was nine, unexpectedly. He had not been ill, it was a bit of a shock and a trauma, but he left behind a household full of books, some of which he shared with me. But many he had not yet had the opportunity to share with me, and I just started reading through his books, I think, in an effort to get to know him better, and also because I thought this would make him pleased.  And so that's this sort of origin story that one finds in the book. 

Mindy: It's so powerful. I'm fortunate to still have both of my parents, and my father too comes from a long line of workers, people that are working with their hands. He was a farmer. I do genealogy and my family have been farmers since Ireland, that's what we do. He is a farmer, that's what he does, but he went to college, he was the first person in our family to go to college and get a degree and ended up farming anyway, but he just believed that education was important. And when my sister and I graduated from high school, he was like, You guys are going to college. I don't care what you study, I don't care if you don't use it, I don't care if you choose to get married and raise children and work at home. If you educate the parent, they will educate the child. And I just think that's so beautiful. 

Farah: Yeah, it's so true. My father sought education. As you said, you know, working class man, but he went to college, got an associate's degree, loved architecture and construction and all of those kinds of things, and similar to you, our father always said to me that I would go to college. Never a question in my mind. When I look back on it, I thought, how would we have afforded it? It truly is a gift. 

Mindy: I love what you're saying about looking back, there was never a question, it was like, You are going to college. My parents were going to make that happen for me, and that's right, that is just a privilege that I did not understand was a privilege, it's a gift. 

Farah: And they decide, You know, even before your have the understanding, perhaps even before you're really in the world, that this is something that's going to be a given to their children and it's an investment in you and also a belief in your capacity, that if you have the opportunity you will do just fine. 

Mindy: So I wanna talk about Read Until You Understand. So this came out from WW Norton in September of this year, and I am just really drawn to this book because it combines literary analysis, lyrical storytelling, but also political thought into a three-fold genre. So talk a little bit of the book and like how it came about and how you went about pulling this all together into a cohesive tome. 

Farah: I'm a professor of English literature and African-American studies. I teach American and African-American literature in particular all the time. I love the literature and my students love it. I always felt like this was not a body of work that was written for people who were sitting in a college classroom, it was written for everybody, it was written for people who might not make it to a college class. It didn't place those limits on itself, and so I thought, there are people outside of my classroom outside of the university, even, or people who may have gone to university and are no longer here, who are interested in what these writers have to say. Who would learn from them? Who would benefit and actually appreciate and enjoy it? So I wanted to do what I do, which is teach and write about literature as a literary critic, but bring it to a broader audience. Books resonated with me long before I began to study to become a college professor. And I ask myself, what were those reasons? 

And so part of the autobiographical parts of the book are trying to explain the reasons why the literature that I write about spoke to me, even outside of an academic context, the way that it helped explain my life in my community, our history as a people and as a nation. And then I think the political thought part of it was - I'd been thinking of it, but I started writing it during the 2016 presidential election, and I just thought this literature is beautiful and it's aesthetically pleasing, but it also has a lot of political wisdom that I think all Americans should have access to and understanding of as we try to live in a democratic society, particularly a multi-racial democratic society. And so those three strands that are three disparate strands, all came together and made sense. I hope bringing them together makes sense for readers as well. 

Mindy: And what was that process like? I'm really curious because they are disparate, but at the same time when I read about the book, I was like, Oh, that makes perfect sense. Yes, they are disparate though. So I'm just curious what that process was like for you. 

Farah: So sometimes the starting point would be a kind of political idea that I would then trace back through the literature, that I would then trace back through something personal. And then other times it would be the exact opposite. So the parts of the book that are memoir, and I say memoir, not autobiography, 'cause I don't pretend to tell my life story, I don't even pretend that anyone would be interested in my life story. It's a section of my life that is around learning from my father, kind of a father-daughter relationship that develops intellectually, but also personally, allowing and sharing with my readers the impact of that loss, so that you get to know my father as I knew him through my eyes. And then you clearly have an understanding of the loss of him, how I lost him and what that felt like, and how my family and my neighbors and community embraced my mother and myself and just kind of surrounded us with love and support, and they say it takes a village... Well, that was a village that pulled itself together in spite of its own problems and contradictions to support this young widow and her child, and so that's the story, that's the personal story.

Then the years leading up to my father's death, his death, and the years immediately following them, my education, both formally but also informally during that period, and then the ways that I made sense of that loss. I made sense of some of the things that I believed were injustices in our lives, I made sense of them through the literature that I was reading, James Baldwin, Toni Morrison, Frederick Douglas, I made sense of them. And as I got older and began to study this literature formally, I saw the way that these authors spoke to each other through time, and the way they offered thoughts and ideas about driving political questions and also spiritual questions. And so that was the process. You know, sometimes I'd start with just a concept and other times I'd start with a story from my family that I try to make sense of, and one way of making sense of it was through literature, and then through philosophy or political thought, the threads all came together. 

Mindy: So with those threads, how did you go about choosing what to include from other people's work? 

Farah: That's such a great question. There were so many more books and I thought, Okay, This isn't an encyclopedia, you've got to narrow it down. And there were some people who I had in the first draft and I took them out. I chose, just like I do for my classes, I chose authors and books that seem to speak to each other, that I could maybe put in a conversation with each other. So for example, there's a chapter on the ideal of America and Black people's freedom in relation to it. There are many people I could have written about. I chose Frederick Douglass, Malcom X and Barack Obama, because they were all political figures, the last one, a formal politician, the first two activists. But in addition to that, all three of them were really good writers, and all three of them were people who made contributions to American writing as much as they did to American politics. All three of them were orators, very great orators. And each one of them undergoes a kind of development and change over the course of their public career where they distance themselves from mentors who have been very important to them, so that helped me narrow down those three. 

And what really was sort of the icing on the cake was Douglass is the first one. And it's clear that Malcolm and Obama read Douglass, and then it's clear - and Barack talks about this in his autobiography - that he read not only Douglass, but that he read Malcolm X. Those two figures shaped his thinking and his way of being in the world, so that really helped me. It’s like having a piece of marble and sculpting, sculpting. And it helped me figure out which of a huge body of people I could have written about, who are the people who seem to be in conversation through time about these ideas? And that's how I did it. 

Mindy: That's fascinating to me. I love the concept. Love everything about it. I think it is very interesting too, that one of the origin points for you was the 2016 election. So many people that I know had a creative fire lit underneath them by the election and everything leading up to it. I was actually promoting my book that came out in 2016, it is about rape culture. I think it came out like the week after Trump made his comment about grabbing women by the pussy. And I was just like, well, I mean, there couldn't be a better time.

Farah: Right, and it couldn’t be a better time. It could not be a better time if anyone asks if there’s a need for your book. There it was. 

Mindy: Exactly. I'm like, Well, we have this man and then he won the election, I'm like, Okay, so it's now even more relevant, right? Of course, the days that we're living in have just set us back. I don't know how many hundred years. But badly. I also see the pushback and in the creative communities, the ways things that have come into creation and achieved a physical life because of the push back and the, Hey, no, this is not okay.

Farah: Exactly, I'm working on something else, and one of the phrases that keeps coming up for me is crisis and possibility, and I do believe crises open up possibilities.  If you can see the opportunity, because we're in crisis, I think sometimes people are more willing to listen 'cause they're like, How do we get here? Wait, how did this happen? Whereas before, they might not wanna hear it if everything is just running smoothly. And if you look throughout history, some of the most critical points in history have produced some of the smartest, most interesting, most creative work, Tony Morrison, who says that her friend, the director Peter Sellers would tell her, she would say, It's just overwhelming. I can't even do my work, and he would say, No, this is the time when artists do their work. This is not the time to sit it out, this is the time when you gotta do it. And I think that what you're describing about that period leading up to his winning, but even before -  it was the time to do the work. It was the time for you to get your book out. And people who might have said, rape culture, what's rape culture? Well, they weren't gonna say that anymore.

Mindy: I had even had a young man say to me that rape culture doesn't even exist, and I was just like, Well, you get to live in a world where you get to believe that I don't. To have it then broadcast publicly for everyone, writ large... I was like, yeah, say that again. 

Farah: What's important is it wasn't just an individual who did something awful - 'cause he did something awful - but it was in the defense of him. The defense that it wasn't that bad. Or boys will be boys. And then he gets elected. It's not a deal breaker. 

Mindy: I know, of course, obscenity has kind of become the word of the day, we see these just absolutely unparalleled moments of just ignorance and racism and sexism and homophobia and all of these things just blatantly on display. I'm sure being in a university setting that you are aware of the new censorship wave that is hitting. 

Farah: We're talking about banning books and burning them, not understanding or caring that that is a huge threat to this democracy we claim to cherish. And this is why I liked writing about the books that I wrote about, is that I wanted to give people a sense of history, to a sense of perspective. History is not always a straightforward linear progress, and it's not just a given. If it progresses, it progresses because people fight and lay their lives on the line for it. Their ideas that are their tools have been bequeathed to you can help make the arguments that you need to make, because they've needed to make them before. And so just to give a sense that struggling and fighting with ideas and with art is part of a tradition, and that we can't take anything for granted.

Everything is hard won. Everything. And it can be taken away from us. I realized that intellectually, I understood how fragile democracy was, I understood that intellectually, but I didn't really understand it viscerally until these last few years. Freedoms can be taken away. And the guard rails are so... They're so weak, you know? The guard rails are based on people saying and being willing to do the right thing. That's what the guards us. Then you get someone who says, The hell with that, I don't care about doing the right thing. 

Mindy: The right thing is sometimes the hard thing, a lot of people don’t want to do that. 

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Mindy: I very recently, this past week, I'm promoting a book and I was traveling and a group had asked me to speak about dystopian literature and why dystopian literature is popular. I live in Ohio, and I live in a fairly conservative area, and I was moving through a fairly conservative area while I was doing my presentation, and one of the things that I talked about was dystopia and how it is never really gone away. This is not a new wave. This has happened before, and I talked about Sinclair Lewis’ book, It Can't Happen Here, which was written in 1935, suddenly hitting the bestseller list again shortly after the election. And I don't know that people wanted to hear that, but I was like, You know I'm gonna say it. And here's my PowerPoint slide, and you're going to look at this because I want you to think about this. 'cause you're right, things can be taken away so easily and pretending things are okay… I love your point about literal trauma of the past few years helping us kind of wake up to that, and pull together too. I think that that is very true. It lit up a fire under a lot of people, an awareness that things can be lost and like you said, it's more fragile than we ever thought. Which is why I bring up Lewis’ novel, because it is important to just even think about the title, It Can't Happen Here. That is an ironic title. 

Farah: And there you have it again, you have a writer who thought through it, really took the time to think through it and spoke in such a way that it becomes relevant decades after he wrote it. One of my favorite novels that I write about in the book is Toni Morrison's A Mercy, which came out in 2008 just after the election of Barack Obama. But what I love about that novel is that she goes back to the period before we're the United States, when people are coming over from the colonies, when the roads still have their Native American names. And everything is in flow, everything is possible, racial slavery hasn't been consolidated yet, and certain forms of Christianity haven't been consolidated as dominant yet, and so there are all these things that are possible and we forget that that was the case. And then it reminds us that certain choices were made that did not have to be made, but they were. And we live with the consequences of those choices today. Historians do it beautifully, but I think that creative writers especially do it well because it's an invitation and it's a story for you to kinda put yourself in and live with during the time that you're reading it. And it doesn't seem so far in the past. Suddenly you're like, Oh, I get it, I see how that happened now. 

Mindy: Yeah, and it makes you think about your actions today and how they're gonna echo into the future.

Farah: Exactly. I was talking to some friends about something recently, and I said, Okay, you know, This makes sense - you're just stating your opinion right now and it makes sense, I said. But think about how what you're saying is going to a wear. Are you gonna want to associate with that opinion, as history moves on, with anything that would deny people their rights? History teaches you, you don't wanna be on the side of denying rights or taking rights away that have already been given to people. That's not a good move. 

Mindy: That is a bad place to be. You mentioned Toni Morrison, and I wanna go back to the censorship question, we were talking about politics obviously, but one of the things recently that caught my eye, the list of books that politician from Texas has that needed to be questioned or should not be in schools and it was so blatantly racist and homophobic. It was just bad, I was looking at it. I worked in the library for 14 years, and of course I'm a writer, but I was also an English major, so it's like I'm familiar with obviously names in the canon, but also contemporary writers and books and everything, and I was just scrolling through it and I was just like - You're not even presenting, you're not even trying to couch this, this is just blatant racism and homophobia, and if there's no way to look at this and not see that.

Farah: Book Banners are not readers. Most of the people who are banning books haven't even read those books that they're banning, they haven't read them really. They might have read a paragraph. Because people who read books and love books would never come up with the idea of banning a book no matter how much they disliked it, no matter how much they thought it was wrong. It's an opportunity to talk about what's wrong with it. So those people who are banning books, it's always about something other than the book itself. It's about control, it's about not wanting to get certain information out there, not wanting to make certain ideas available. Like you said that in this instance, it's mostly homophobic and sexist, its racist, all of those things, and you can tell that these are people who haven't even bothered to read the books that they are banning. 

Mindy: Like I said, it was a librarian and whenever we had a challenge, which was rare, but we would have them. And whenever we had a challenge, that was always my first question, usually it was a parent, and my first question to the parent would be, have you read the book? The answer was always No. 

Farah: There you go.

Mindy: Okay, Well, go read it and then come back, and I'm happy to talk about this, But read it

Farah: I think about when I was a kid, my parents, my father, he bought this old second-hand encyclopedia and he wanted it in the house for me. And even after he died, I would read it. And it was the most racist, I mean, it was so racist. But I was so glad to have it and to read it because then I could understand things, I could see that it was racist and why it was racist. And I'd much rather do that, than not have it at all. I would much rather say, Oh, this is why we've gotten into this mess because look, this was the encyclopedia and these are the ideas it was peddling.  I think that the parental teaching moment is to sit down with your child and talk about the problematic book. That's what you do, but yeah, these people who are banning, they stand up and they're so self-righteous about it, not really knowing what it is that they are against.

Mindy: No, not at all. One of my books recently was challenged, it was upheld by the school board, thankfully, but it is about the opioid epidemic, and it is a sympathetic look at addiction and addicts, and people didn't like that. And so I had a moment because it was the first book of mine to be challenged, that I'm aware of. But by far, it is also my tamest book. It’s almost funny that this is the one that gets attacked because of drug use, but also I was like, You know, I have talked about - there's rape and there is consensual sex, there is violence and there's language, and there is drinking, all of these topics are across my books because I write about reality and I write about the real world, and this does happen. Someone asked me, they were like, Why do you think all of a sudden this book, one of your new releases, is the one that is getting caught up in this? Why not your book about rape culture, which is by far the one should be, if anything should be challenged, it would be that one. It is simply because I have flown under the radar of such things for a long time because I'm white and I'm straight, I'm just considered, I guess, safe. Or I'm never falling under the eye of someone that would be like, wanting to stop my voice, because I'm white and I'm straight/ And when I said this as a response, people were somewhat surprised, and I'm like, No, that's the reason.

Farah: You know, this book, I also write about addiction, one of the things that I write that I'm struck by, is that now, because so many people are falling victim to addiction, across-race, across class, and you would hope that there would be greater compassion and sympathy than there has been in the past. And clearly we know that there are still people who don't have compassion. It's unfortunate. It's really unfortunate. And we write anyway, we write... And like you said, because you write out of truth and you write out of a reality, and it's a reality.  This is what I'm always thinking about, is that somewhere in those places where there are people who are banning books and people who are trying to challenge those of us who write them, there's some kid or some adult who is trying to deal with their own sexuality or dealing with the fact of molestation and abuse, or dealing with the fact of addiction of themselves or a parent or a loved one, and they're sitting there feeling alone, and so silenced in a place that won't allow room for those discussions. And so I'm like, You know what, those people are reading us too. They are reading us too, and I'm grateful to be able to hopefully give them something that provides information or support or something that says, I see you.

Mindy: Yes, absolutely. And that's who I write for. I'm proud to continue doing it and people can have a problem with it all they want. I had a Zoom earlier today with a teen book group, and someone said, How do you respond emotionally, internally, how do you feel when your books are attacked or challenged, or just flat out don't like your books or what you write about? And I just said, I've come to a point. I don't care. I didn't write it for you. You can hate it. It doesn't matter to me. You’re free to hate it, that's fine. It's not for... It's not for you, it's not for everybody. 

Farah: I was a precocious reader, I think about the girl that I was, reading, thank God I had access to the books that I had access to, because they basically showed me another world, they showed me another way of being, they showed me that the very thing that could be the source of your difference that made you the object of all kinds of bad things were also the source of what made you potentially wonderful. And that would be appreciated. I imagine those readers, someone stumbling upon something I've written who hasn't been exposed to what I'm writing about, and it just turning on a light bulb for them, and that just opening up possibilities and doors. And even those who disagree with me, if you genuinely disagree, if you disagree because you've actually tried to engage it, and you think I'm wrong... I respect that,  and I welcome that. 

Mindy: Absolutely, yeah, me too. I feel exactly the same way. Last thing, why don't you let listeners know where they can find you online and where they can find your book, Read Until You Understand.

Farah: You can follow me on Twitter, although I'm not as active as I should be. You can follow me on Instagram, I’m pretty active on Instagram. I also have a website, Farah Jasmine Griffin dot com. My books are available at your favorite independent book store, the independent bookstores have been extraordinary. 

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Lauren Kate On Writing Within The Publishing Industry & Meeting Your Heroes

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Mindy: So we're here with Lauren Kate, author of By Any Other Name. I am personally excited about this one because it is set within the publishing world, that of course always has an interest for me as a writer and someone that is also operating within that world. But I think it also offers a great opportunity for readers who I think are instinctively interested in that. 

Lauren: Having worked in the publishing world, it was such a fun and charged experience all the time. It really was as exciting, I think, as it's often portrayed in books and movies. If you enjoy books, being surrounded by them, talking about them non-stop, it’s very fun, and I love getting to bring that to the page in this book.

Mindy: One of the things that I think is interesting about this book, By Any Other Name, is that it's not not a biographical book, but in some ways it is based on things that happened to you in your life is that right? 

Lauren: I put all of these pieces that are auto-biographical together and let them explode into something a bit more fictional, but yes, many pieces of this story that are based on my life. When I worked as a young editor at the publishing house, I worked with a really reclusive, mysterious author who I idolized and had based a lot of my ideas about life on that writer's books. So that alone, and the mystery around who that person actually was, was always in the back of my mind, and something I wanted to explore in a story. I never knew that I was gonna make it a comedy, I never knew that it was going to be romantic and fun in this way. That is one piece drawn from real life. And the other one was a big dramatic break-up that I had on the back of a motorcycle on the cliffs of the Amalfi Coast that I transformed to make myself the hero that I wish I had been in the moment.

Mindy: Tell me. Hindsight is 2020. Breakups. Oh my God, I've been through my share. 

Lauren: And yeah, you get to retell it the way you wish it would have gone.

Mindy: You get to retell it so that you come off perfect. To open it up for listeners a little bit, why don't you let them know what By Any Other Name is about?

Lauren: Sure, so the main character of the story is Lanie, an editor at a publishing house, and she works on the books of this very prominent reclusive romance novelist, and she, like me, has based a lot of her ideas about what love is and what a heroine, and a love story is supposed to be like on this writer's books. But she's never met the writer. She has a vision in her mind of what they are, and it is a slightly older female mentor that she looks up to as a model. When she meets the writer in person, there's a circumstance that forces them to meet each other, she is shocked and horrified to learn the writer of her favorite books is a man, and he's kind of a jerk. This throws a lot of her life into chaos. You start second guessing all of the choices that she’s made based on these books that have meant so much to her, her career, she's in a relationship kind of inspired by these novels, she's engaged to be married, and all of that begins to crumble. And as it does, she is surprised to begin to fall in love with the author of these books.

Mindy: So many things going on there. You do move and work and participate in the romance industry, you have these break-up stories in your past, we all do. I don't know that this is't necessarily true, but I do think I, as an individual, tend to short change real life men because they are not living up to their fictional counterparts. When I think about the romance industry and what I thought a hero was supposed to be... 

Lauren: Exactly, these other guys need to step it up.

Mindy: Having had these experiences as a reader -  in a book, like this guy is perfect! As a writer then, kind of viewing it through this lens of - This is a woman writing the ideal man. And I think if I were to discover it was actually a man writing it… I think that that would throw a little bit, I don't know if that's sexist or not, but I think it would.

Lauren: And these are the questions and the arguments, what are our expectations about the origins of the stories that we believe in, and why do we assign different gender roles to them, and what does it mean to have them challenged? What's possible when you look beyond your conception of who gets to tell what story?

Mindy: And I think that's really important because I have definitely had moments as a writer when I'm writing a male character, where I will seek out male friends and be like, Hey, in this situation, if a male reacts like this, what's the internal? Because I can see the external, but what's going on internally? Because if I knew the answer to that, I wouldn't be divorced.

Lauren: I do ask my husband. Sometimes I'll write the male side and then I'll share it with him and he'll make a couple of edits, like just change a sentence or two, and it changes the entire interiority.  That is a fascinating thing that I would never have known a man would feel that way.

Mindy: Yeah, and I think that men get short changed very often in the emotional depth.

Lauren: That was an interesting thing to explore with this character too, because he's all about emotional depth, he's writing vulnerable men and women as his career for a number of books, and that's his particular fascination. And so a lot of it is on the sleeve for Lanie and for the reader to experience. I guess the question for me was then, if there's a virtual or the writerly version of this person, and then there's the real life version of this person, which one is true? Which one is real? The walls that come up in the real person, is that artifice? 

I like to think about the deep and true friendship that these characters developed online and via email and via books before they ever met in person, I didn't wanna discount that, and that was a thing that the main character had to overcome this feeling that... Yes, they do actually have a history, they are actually friends, they are building on something that they started that was real, even though she was operating under an assumption that was incorrect. She has to come to peace with - Was that a lie or was that my own mis-characterization of who this person was?

Mindy: Yeah, and that's really interesting. That's a really good question. It's like if you're connecting with that person, knowing or even not knowing what their gender is? Because I grew up and I assume you did as well in a world of interacting with screen names and their gender wasn't necessarily inferred by their name. So I had a friend that I became pretty close with that was a fellow writer on a writer's forum, we would just be interacting with each other on the forum, and then there would be some DMs, and then, you know, that relationship changed and became more of a friendship. Because I think that when the internet first became a thing, it was really a question for a lot of people, whether you can have online friends... Is that a real thing? And now I think people realize, yes, it is. 

Lauren: We surrender. 

Mindy: You have a real relationship with this person, but I didn't know if that person was a man or a woman. We were just having these conversations and connecting about concepts and ideas and humor and our opinions about other people, and it didn't matter. 

Lauren: Did you ever find out? 

Mindy: Yes, it was a man and he ended up becoming a woman. We had an interesting conversation where I was talking to this person and they were like, Hey, you know, I know that we haven't actually talked on the phone, or you haven't seen me in a while, and I'm just letting you know this is a thing that happened, just like FYI. I was like, Well, you know, for two or three years of our friendship, I didn't know what your gender was, so it doesn't actually matter now either. 

Lauren: Now, that is remarkable. That's a really cool story.

Mindy: I connected with you as a human person. Whatever else is going on. It doesn't matter.

Lauren: Exactly. 

Mindy: It's an interesting way to view human relationships, and I think once she begins making the connection into romance and falling for him, I do understand why she would then be like, Well, wait a minute, is this predicated upon a lie?

Lauren: And she has a lot of questions, I think because it rocked her so much to realize that there was a man behind the stories that were shaping her ideas of how to be a woman. She has a lot of ethical questions about what she's perpetrating for the millions of women who read this writer's books. And she doesn't want to be part of this lie, if it is a lie, that's the crux of what she's struggling with. Even as she's trying to get him to write that next book that he's way past his deadline for and even as she's falling in love with him. And of course he's able to write all of these wrongs in the end. I really liked making him reckon with the lie or the misconception that he had been living under for years, he has a public reckoning with that, that made me care for him a great deal.

Mindy: Was that something you planned or was that just like a character move that took you by surprise?

Lauren: I did always plan on the truth coming out to the public within this world, but originally I had a more of a nemesis character who exposed the back story. And what ultimately happened as I refined the draft and moved deeper into my revision, was I realized that it had to originate from the character and he had to make a choice to come clean, be open with his readership. That shouldn't have come from anywhere else, that was the change.

Mindy: Organic and internal choice rather than being forced is really important.

Lauren: It's hard to see in the outlining stage or the first draft because you know it's gotta happen, it's just not as clear how it has to happen or how the characters are gonna feel about it when it happens. For me, the second draft is like where the beautiful things begin to happen in my stories and begin to feel like things are clicking into place. And so realizing that and knowing this has to be a self-directed move and the bravery required for that. It feels really good.

Mindy: For me, when I'm writing a first draft, I'm learning those characters as I'm going, no matter how much planning. I don't really plan a lot, but I will be living with them inside my head for some time before I start writing it down, and I think that I know them, but the act of writing them is where I actually learn them. And oftentimes I've written that first draft, and when I go back to the beginning, when I'm editing, when I'm doing a second draft, I have to adjust the first five to six chapters because who they are changed.

Lauren: I like the little bread crumbs that my subconscious leaves for me. In this book, I kept mentioning something about her father, and then I would mention something about her grandmother. I wrote the whole first draft, her mom never came on the page and I was like, Oh, I gotta put the mom in here somewhere, why is it the mom never weighing in on this? And I started to look closer and I was like, the mom, she's not here. I can't find her, and then I realized that the mom was dead and that her death was this formative experience that already had echoes in other places of the story waiting for me to just pick them up and use them. So many things fell into place. Once I realized she had this space in her heart that was left by her mom's death, I was just able to sort of move into the right places to address that, that I never saw coming.

Mindy: Yes, I had a character recently, in my 2023 release, who was supposed to be Type A, good girl, and when I started writing her, she was mad, she was angry, and there would be a lot of resentment and not necessarily sniping, but just internal anger that she bottled up and kept a lid on. And whenever I was writing her externally, what was going on with her internally was very different, and I was just like, Well, hello, I didn't know that was in there.

Lauren: You're the only one who gets to see that side of them. They're not showing anyone else in their world this.

Mindy: Right, and it ended up being absolutely perfect, and even driving the plot and changing the character. She spoke to me, I was like, if she's an angry person... Well, this changes everything.

Lauren: Yeah, yeah. Now you have your work cut out for you. That's amazing, 

Mindy: I love when that happens. When they become real people, then I think you know that you've really hit something. 

Lauren: Thank you, thank you for being real. I don't have to do the work now. 

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Mindy: So you've written across genres, you've written YA, You have written historical, obviously, you are also writing romcom. So I also write across genres and I get a lot of questions that I don't wanna ask you, because I know what it's like to have someone say - how does your process change? And I'm like, I don't know, I'm just writing a book. I think my question to you is more like, how do you prepare your readership for this? Do you look for crossover? Do you think people are following you, or are you not worried about that and you're just writing what’s in your heart? 

Lauren: I am just writing what's in my heart. To me, the experience of writing every book is the same, and I almost feel like all my books, whether they're set 400 years ago or funny or super serious with theological implications, whatever the book is. To me, it feels like it's kind of the same story. It circles the same questions about how empowering love is. I think that's just a preoccupation in all of the things that I write, and they have different tones, but they are at their core coming from the same place for me. 

I just wrote my first middle grade novel, and it's the first thing I've ever written that doesn't have like an erotic romance of its core. But it has a best friend romance, that really intense female friendship between two girls who are pre-puberty, they're not in love or even having crushes yet, they just are deep best friends. And I found that even writing that relationship was so similar to exploring a romance, dealing with so many of the same possibilities and frictions, and so again, it's like even when I'm going really far away from the thing that I think I do. I'm still doing the thing that I do.

Mindy: I agree. My books are all about gray areas of morality and human experience, that's what every book is about. What is right, what is wrong? Do those things exist? And how do we behave in the world, morally?

Lauren:   You can circle that in any number of ways, but we all have our own personal preoccupations that they're going to crop up in our writing no matter what.

Mindy: Agreed, agreed. And I think as a reader, I like finding those elements and identifying them, in an author, and I can trace that thread through all of their books, and it really does feel like there's an intimacy there.

Lauren: That's true. I'm a big fan of Madeline Miller's books and just reading The Song of Achilles and Circe back to back, and I read Circe a couple of times 'cause I was teaching it, I was starting to see things. Obviously, they're both about mythology, but deeper than that, I'm noticing there are all these things going on with unloving parents and a child who should have gotten better parents than their luck of the draw dealt them. I do love to notice little tropes like that and think about how they echo throughout the writer's canon.

Mindy: I struggle with it a little bit because I believe in the death of the author. I want the work to stand separate. I think that the author's opinion, even intent, sometimes doesn't matter. Once I have written a book, it has passed beyond me, and everyone is going to do with what they will or will not with it, and I don't think I get to direct that anymore. There is some danger in that too, because I don't wanna be misinterpreted, but I also would never tell someone that they're wrong. 

Lauren: Yeah, and they can't possibly be wrong. I think it's funny that you mentioned that because in By Any Other Name, when Lanie first meets Noah in person, they have an argument about the death of the author and if that's possible, and what Roland Barthes meant in his essay and they really pick that one part quite ferociously. I think that's a fascinating question.

Mindy: I do too. I think it's super important. I have to try to, especially in today's world, but it stands true for many things, I have to sometimes look at an individual, a writer an artist, to singer or whatever they are, if their personal life is something that I find or their public actions are something that I find reprehensible, but I love their books or I love their song. I do struggle with... It's like, Okay, how do I handle this? Am I supporting them by buying their music? Or interacting with it? Or am I just going to separate the art from the artist and say, I like this song? 

Lauren: I mean, I think that the art is always already separate from the artist, but I can imagine some of the artists that you're referencing, and I know the struggle. It's a strange struggle, especially to be a true fan of someone who you don't agree with. 

Mindy: I think it's really difficult. If they're already dead, I don't struggle with it as much, so that's easier. Don't meet your heroes. I haven't, but I also don't really have any... I try very hard to keep those things separate, like we talked about, keep the artist and the art separate. I think it's important. I really do. I think that you need to experience whatever it is, the piece, apart from knowing anything about the author, and if you are driven by what you've experienced - that you feel like, Oh, I think I could connect with this person. I want to know more about them. It can bastardize both your experience of the person and the art. So yeah, it's a question that I've kind of always had. And of course, now moving in the actual world of publishing and authors where I will meet people, I have yet to have the experience where I was like, Oh wow, that was a serious let down...

 Lauren: As a child, I was obsessed with Louis Sachar. I'm still kind or am. And I remember meeting him at a book festival a few years ago, and just couldn't not fan-girl. I really went for it, and he was so kind, very friendly and everything, but it was like -  I realized what it's like to be on that side of the equation, and I simply could not hold in my enthusiasm. I became very aware that I'm meeting a hero,  I'm actually doing it. I know that you know this too, the solitary nature of what we do 95% of our time, to ever have somebody say to you, Your book meant something to me, whether their enthusiasm level is off the charts or whatever, it is a deeply moving experience.

Mindy: It’s why I do it. Obviously it's nice to have an income, but I mean, I got an email the other day from someone, it literally was identifying the threads in my books and said, You've changed the way that I look at the world. It is a beautiful feeling, and I have yet to be on the other side of that where I just kinda lose my cool

Lauren: One day, you won't be able to reign it in. And it'll be good.

Mindy: I look forward to making a complete ass of myself. So last thing, why don't you let listeners know where they can find the book By Any Other Name, and where they can find you online?

Lauren: You can get the book anywhere books are sold. Online, my handle is generally Lauren Kate books everywhere on Twitter, Instagram, TikTok, all those spots, and yeah, I would love to connect with any readers out there.

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Lisa Gardner On Cold Cases & Public Land Disappearances

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Mindy: We are here with Lisa Gardner, whose book One Step Too Far is a stand-alone, but it's using a character that you’ve used before, your character of Frankie Elkin who is a recovering alcoholic, she travels light and is obsessed with locating missing people whose cases have been forgotten. Which I think is just particularly interesting in the world that we're moving in today where so many people do have an interest in true crime, and they might not necessarily have a background in it or not be officially cops, or in the justice system. But they're interested in being a part of it. 

Lisa: Exactly, Mindy. Thank you very much. It's somewhat the basis for Frankie Elkin, that there is this very real world trend of everyday people getting involved in cold cases, and part of that has to do with forensics. If there was the magical hair fiber or the smoking gun that was gonna solve the case, it would have happened. If the police had the right interview, lead suspects, it would have happened. So when you start getting into these cold cases and missing persons often, well, you don't need an investigative background, you don't need to be a forensic scientist or a detective or a hacker, you get down to, as Frankie likes to put it, the right person asking the right questions at the right time. And yes, there's two books with Franiey Elkin. They're pretty distinct because both just encapsulate these totally different scenarios of the very real world situations in the US where there are a lot of people missing and no one's looking for them.

Mindy: It's so scary. I am particularly interested in, drawn in by Frankie’s second book here, the one coming out, One Step Too Far, because it focuses on something I personally am very interested in, is people disappearing in state parks, national parks, wilderness areas. This happens a lot more than people realize.

Lisa: Yes, I live in the mountains of New Hampshire, so I happen to be an avid hiker, and it's actually a part of the writing process. Every time I get stuck, I hit a hiking trail. So about two years ago when I started reading about... Again, there's like 1600 people missing on national public lands, they call it. It's everything from the toddler that wandered away from the fire during the camping trip to -  in the case of One Step Too Far, you have a young man doing his bachelor party who disappears in the woods. But all of this is handled by volunteers, when someone goes missing, there is a lot of attention in the short term. Thousands of people will come in to volunteer, and you'll get pilots and you'll get drones, and you'll get dog teams and anything you could ever ask. But they ultimately have to return to their normal life, so three to six weeks later... That's it. If that was your four-year-old wandering from the campfire, that was your son, who disappeared on his Bachelor weekend. That's just it. And that was kind of staggering to me that we could have this huge gap of who is looking for these people, who is bringing closure to those families. In my book One Step Too Far, that's what Frankie Elkin is all about. She doesn't know how to solve her own problems, so she really likes to get involved in some of the problems of others.

Mindy: Wonderful and it's going to appeal to so many mystery readers in general, but also maybe people that haven't necessarily dipped their toe into reading fiction. They're more into the true crime arena, but they themselves are really going to relate to Frankie and what she's doing, I think. 

Lisa:  What I love about Frankie Elkins is, she's very real-world-based, she doesn't have any special skills, she's not kick ass, she's not bad ass, she's not a computer hacker. There's nothing special really there, I mean, that's something she's very aware of, she's leading an anti-life. She's a recovering alcoholic, she has more regrets than belongings. She stays in one place, tries to have one job, keeps to herself with one set of relationships. She drinks. She gets that society is telling her - these are the things she should want, and that's the lifestyle she should aspire to, but Frankie's pretty blunt, real world, the things she's supposed to want... Makes her drink. If she travels, if she moves, she does this very kind of different and bizarre sort of mission, she goes from town to town, she looks for the missing that other people have forgotten. She listens, she learns. She connects the dots. It keeps her sober. No one gets it. But it works for her.

Mindy:  I love it, I love it, particularly because often as a reader, but also as just a consumer in general, I have become, as I got older, very disillusioned with the Uber men and the Uber women. They can do anything, they can get shot five times and still have sex. They're fine. And I'm just like, No, they're not. They're bleeding out. But yes, I get so frustrated watching people that aren't real people, people that are functioning just at a higher level, either physically or mentally than the rest of us. Because I can't relate, like you're saying, I can't put myself in their shoes because they're not human in many ways. So I find it so refreshing that Frankie really is someone living on the outer edges of life, and she's not leading that traditional life and she's not buying into some of what other people would claim is happiness. 

Lisa:  Yeah, and she's not super powered, she's really a lot of fun to write. In my writing career, my previous best novelist, I had the FBI Serial Profiler. I've had the urban Boston detective, I've even had this fabulous vigilante Flora Dane who, her own survival is knowing how to kill you in more ways than Sunday. Frankie is none of those things. She's an excellent proxy for us, and she's a challenge because of that very reason.

So in her case, she's following missing persons boards online, she's reading articles in the newspaper, and that's what brings her to Wyoming and in One Step Too Far this young man went missing several years ago, his mother is dying of cancer. Her dying wish is to be buried next to her son, so here's the father, the husband kind of - Alright, this is it, and we're gonna have this final push into the wilderness and we're gonna find him. And he's angry and he's determined. And then you have the friends who were last with Timothy O’Day when he disappeared and they’re guilt-stricken and remorseful and hang dog. And then you got the experts and the search and rescue person, the Bigfoot hunter –which turns out, they know a lot more than you think. And Frankie who stumbles upon an article in the paper and was like - So I solve missing person's cases, I can do seven weeks in the wilderness of Wyoming. Within two hours she is really sorry she ever thought. Frankie does not like hiking and camping, and it kind of occurs to her halfway up the mountain that she's not enjoying all of that. What the hell? There's no neighbors to ask questions.  Why was I ever thinking I could do this? But of course, this things evolve, but I love that when I go to write the books, when I go to think about it, it's like, Okay, you and me... We're sitting at home right now. What would we do? We have only the resources available to us as everyday, average people. What would you do? Francis, ingeniousness is to Listen, Learn and have empathy.

Mindy:  And I think you hit on something that I want to talk about a little bit more, 'cause it's such a rich area. Emotion, all of the different conflicting emotions that revolve around a missing person's case, you mentioned the people that Timothy O’Day was with when he disappeared, they have guilt. You've got the mother who's like, I just need to know what happened, and I have a small window in which to get my answers. And the dad who is angry, and you've got professionals that probably have an amount of frustration and volunteers who are putting themselves out on the line, there's so many different relationships and avenues to develop emotions within your story.

Lisa:   I kind of classified One Step Too Far when I was writing it as my official Agatha Christie’s And Then There Were None goes on a hike. And it was fun for me because Frankie, we quickly establish, she's not a hiker, she's used to inner city urban environments where minorities, the disenfranchised have been left alone and no one's looking for them. This is her first true, really wilderness remote experience. So she starts to kind of reflect upon, okay, I know I’m in the woods. I have established now I hate hiking and I don't actually like the woods. What do I bring to the table? How do I help this group? Then starting to understand that anything is a human experience, and this party of eight, this group of eight, which she starts to observe, but they're not a group. You’ve got two leaders over here, you got three hikers over there, the groomsmen, and then you got like her and the other two professionals over here. We're gonna have to make this work, and that's kind of Frankie's super power. She's a loner, but she's a people person. Again, she's not there to just kick ass and take names, she's trying to put the pieces together, so she talks, she listens, she learns, and as things continue to go very, very sideways and bad things start to happen, she is the first to really clue in, if we're ever gonna make out of this alive - we're gonna have to become a true group.

Mindy:   This group that's not a group is not getting out of the woods any time too, and I love that you tackle that, but also that you yourself are an avid hiker. I am as well. I've always been an outdoors person. One of my recent books is actually a survival story about a girl lost in the smoky mountains by herself. And when I was writing it, first of all, I was cursing myself because it's literally one person alone for 98% of the book. God, every time I sat down to write, I was like - You idiot. But I have been in situations where I wouldn't say I was lost, but I was not prepared. And in the dark and not having overnight gear or lights and in a national forest, which aren't really very well maintained. I've been in situations with weather and storms where I was like, Oh, this could actually be really bad. I was in Maui this past December, when the kona storm went through and there were landslides. When you're in nature, it's like nature doesn't care about your gender, your income, what you look like, who you are, whether you're important, whether you're not. It's going to kill you regardless - especially if you are not either bonding with someone else and helping each other get through or extremely capable. 

Lisa: What I love about Frankie in the course of One Step Too Far, she's in this environment that's not her. She's a fish out of water. She's trying to learn, Frankie’s superpower is listening. And I think she struck a chord with readers and reviewers because I think at some fundamental level, all of us recognize we all wanna be heard, but no one knows how to listen. But at a point, it becomes this on-going thing. As you get to a pretty severe survival situation, what you're talking about -  food is gone, weather is bad, someone's injured, someone else's injured. What the hell are we gonna do? What is survival? Is it being tough enough? Is it being the biggest badass present? 'cause there are some in the group that will tell you, Yeah, I'm gonna make it through this, 'cause I'm the biggest tough ass in the world. But Frankie’s kinda argument to this is - it's adaptability. I don't know any of this, and I'm not even particularly tough. I have no idea what I'm doing, but I can continue to adapt, adapt, adapt, and think of, Okay, solution A. Solution B. Okay, now I'm on solution X, Y, Z.

I love that, 'cause I think there's a parable in that for all of us. I think a lot of us have spent the past two years of what the hell does it take to get through it? Is it being mentally tougher? Is it being more resilient? Is it being this, is it being that? And I think Frankie, speaking for her, as a character, she's like - I'm not any of those things. I just keep listening, learning, adapting, and somehow I have faith, this is gonna get me through these woods.

Mindy: We live in a world where everyone is looking for … I don't even know if it's 15 minutes of fame anymore, I think it's more like 15 seconds. And you have to be screaming to get the attention and you have to be constantly fighting to keep any number of eyes on you, and it is almost impossible. The actual listening - very few people do. I had an interesting guest on my blog a couple of weeks ago, an author who wrote a guest post, and it was titled Introversion Is My Superpower. I thought it was wonderful because she was talking about how she is not an outgoing person, she's not dancing on tiktok, she's not doing all of the things that you're supposed to do to gain attention, and she's like, I listen and I observe. And that's why I'm a good writer. And that is my goal, is to be a good writer. Not To Be A Good TikToker. 

Lisa: The other thing, there's a little bit of backlash, and I think we're getting aware of it, but maybe can't get off the treadmill. It's not for Frankie. She doesn't do social media, but she’s connected. Because if you wanna check boards for missing people and follow some of these cases, you need to. But essentially her issue with life is somewhat the social media day and age where we are surrounded by images that tell us - this is how your life should look, this is what should make you happy. And I think one of the reasons readers and reviewers and fall in love with her is - She's already like, yeah, I tried the norms, I tried to do what everyone tells me I should do, I tried to do that the Instagram post, the Facebook, all it did was make me drink. 

If I do this, if I go from town to town, if I just keep moving, if I solve other people's problems, which I know is a cop-out, on some level I get, I should probably solve my own, but at the moment, solving other people's problems that’s what I am capable of. I think she recognizes that, she actually really doesn't know yet how to solve her own problems.  Her doing this is giving her purpose, it's giving her momentum, it is keeping her sober, but it's a harder life. She is the outsider in this group, the wedding party, the father, everyone else has some kind of connection to something. She's connected to nothing, and it makes her both powerful and haunted and compelling. 

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Mindy: You mentioned something earlier that I want to touch back on because it was something that I wanted to bring up with you, so I'm thrilled that you actually opened the door. You talked about a Bigfoot hunter. Like I said, I have for various reasons, mostly 'cause I am a hiker, and so I am aware of the amount of missing people in public lands is a very real thing people don't necessarily know a lot about. And when you wander into those mysteries and the wilderness mysteries and things like that, one of the very first things you're gonna bump into is Bigfoot theories. One of the main cornerstones for missing people in public lands and in wilderness areas is a show and a series of books called Missing 411. I'm sure you're probably somewhat familiar, but it does focus on assuming maybe that Big Foot or aliens are responsible for all of these experiences. So I always thought it was mildly amusing, but I actually bought a Missing 411 book that was about my area, and I live in Ohio, and I am near a designated wilderness area, not necessarily a park or any halibut, it's a wilderness area.

And there was a case in the 30s of a little boy that disappeared like five miles for me, and I got so freaked out. I had to give the book away, I was like, I can't have this in my house. And so I think it's really interesting because I was a little bit like, amused about all these theories, and I'm not saying that I think Bigfoot is responsible. But what I'm saying is that once I started reading these cases, it was amazing to me, minus the end solution that it's Bigfoot, how much information and how capable many of these researchers are.

Lisa: And that's really the word. So I'm an avid hiker, and I'd read this article about all these people that go missing, no one's looking for... And I'm like, there's a story there. And then we start delving into it deeper, one of kind of crazy real life things, stuff you didn't know–there's not even a national database of all the people that have gone missing on our public lands. Which is staging itself. And in fact the best source of data comes from the North American Bigfoot Association. That's kind of crazy. They are actively engaged in mapping disappearances because anomalies have an interest to them, where a lot of people go missing, maybe that's a sign of activity. But the other thing too, in missing persons cases - And this, again, this is the real world - they’re hikers. Outdoors people, people were into looking for BigFoot... Yes, they're out, they know their mountains and when people go missing, they are often some of the first to step forward and to volunteer their time to be guides. And there's several prominent cases in the Olympic Peninsula where they're still searching, and it is the Big Foot society that's frankly, they're the ones who are still looking for these people. No one else is, but they are, and they play this kind of very legitimate role. I could not help but bring it to the table, so in One Step Too Far, in addition to the Father, the grieving groomsmen and the search dog - we’ve got to talk about Daisy, because we both love dogs. But you’ve also got Bob, the Big Foot Hunter, it's like, I didn't even know I needed a bigfoot hunter as a character, but in trying to research this book, I'm like, Oh, yeah, and the team must include a Bigfoot hunter.

Mindy: It's true, and it's something that when I ran across it as well, because like you, I sniffed it out and I was like, Man, there's stories here. And I ended up digging around a little bit, but like I said, there was one just way too close to my house and I got way too scared and I was like... 'cause I run at night and I run in the morning, And I was just like, I can't, I can't do this. But yeah, it is interesting to me, and again, you have those people that are on the fringes of society, but they're out there doing that work. So you mentioned Daisy, of course, I wanna go back to that. I'm a dog person, I've got my Dalmatian, Gus. He's actually sitting on my feet right now, I mean, I don't know about you, but I will forever be scarred by all Old Yeller and Where the Red Fern Grows. So as the author, when you go into writing a dog what are your thoughts and feelings on that?

Lisa: I'm a huge animal fan in general, particularly dogs, and I've had cats for most of my life and horses, and I do think they make anything better. Anything you experience,  a pet makes it better. And I am fascinated by working canines, the ways that dogs can sense, do, feel, things that are far beyond our experience. I had the opportunity 10 years ago or so, to visit the body farm, and it just happened that there was a search and rescue team, canine team there. They were looking for human remains to work on their cadaver recovery, because you're not really allowed to bury body parts in your backyard, it turns out. And just talking to them and the training and the cases - what dogs can find, what dogs can do. Having these forensic scientists, they are saying, Oh, forget all the science in my lab. Your best chance of finding human remains is a dog's nose. And I just love that concept. So of course, if you're doing a search and rescue team in the mountains such as One Step Too Far, you have to have a dog. And one of the things I love about One Step Too Far, is Daisy really is the star. The group actually acknowledges this upfront. They have this rugged mountain guide, who's a local legend. And he is not just from the mountains, he is of the mountains. and even he is like - if we are successful in this mission, it will because of Daisy the dog, it will not be us. As humans, we're not actually very good at hide and seek at all. 

Mindy: I run with my dog. My doggy comes with me everywhere, and we run together. If I have the ability, I take him with me on hikes and I always just... You really said it, everything is better with your animals with you. 

Lisa: And Daisy is based on a real story. When I was working with this cadaver dog team, they talked about, they had all the pure breeds, the German Shepherd. Purely coincidentally, they were somewhere in South America and Puerto Rico working a mudslide. And they adopted his stray dog, it was just clearly starving, brought her home to be a pet. She became by far their best dog. Just the drive to work, the desire to please... It was actually kind of funny to them 'cause they were trying to keep her separate, like you are a  pet. This is our work, and she just wouldn't stay put. She kept intruding into the work exercises and training until they finally started to realize that's really what she wanted to do. 

Mindy: Last thing, why don't you let listeners know where they can find you online and where they can get the book One Step Too Far?

Lisa: One Step Too Far will be available any place books are sold, you could find me on Lisa Gardner dot com, on social media, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, LisaGardnerBKS for books. 

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